First Post - An Introduction

Since this is my first post, I thought an introduction would make sense. I'm a mom of three who also works full time. I'm completely devoted to both my family and my career, but continually try to find a better balance between the two.

Working outside the home and having a family is a constant battle. Shortly after my third child, I found that I always felt guilty. Guilty for not putting in the extra hours at work when others could, and then later guilty for working late and not spending enough time with my family.

I've found a better balance after setting limits and priorities. My limitations now include leaving work on time. It doesn't happen all the time, but a lot more often. I've found that setting creating that boundary also made me more productive in the office.

At home, I had to change my expectations. Life is easier and more enjoyable when we spend time with the kids. In the crazy, busy work week, they act up to get our attention. When we choose them first, we all have a better night. And amazingly enough, the dishes can be done after they go to bed!

Going forward this blog will be about my family, a very normal Midwest family with some crazy moments. It will be about life's lessons along the way, learning as my children grow, and finding the balance between work and family and somehow enjoying both.